ANOTHER LETTER: David Zinyama’s Dear Future Wife Part 2

Zimbabwean-British David Zinyama has gotten more and more love from the ladies following his recent Dear Future Wife letter…

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We published the first letter here and now we have the second one below.

Take them away David:

You’re a princess worth fighting for. I said “princess.” You know, the princess you always wanted to be as a little girl? Yep, that’s you! But here is the deal, if you are a princess, you have to act like a princess. The story goes something like, “The princess waits high up in her castle waiting to be rescued by her Prince Charming (thats me). This ‘prince’ has to cross the treacherous lands, fight all the battles, storm the castle, slay the dragon and THEN he gets the princess.” It’s a pretty cool story, really. Prince Charming doesn’t just walk up to the castle doors, spit a little game, and off they go to happy ever after. You’re a PRINCESS. You’re worthy of a fight. If you give yourself to someone who isn’t willing to fight for you, he isn’t worthy to be with you. Your prince charming isn’t going to fight to take your purity, he is going to fight to protect it. Don’t settle for me, make me go to work. Don’t let me sweep you off your feet without putting in any work. Remember, I have to “cross treacherous lands, fight all the battles, storm the castle, slay the dragon and THEN,” I get the princess. Make me go to work. Don’t let me have you easy. You deserve a gentlemen. You deserve chivalry. Do not settle. There are going to be a lot of guys who come through who might look like me, they might be dressed like me, and they might talk like me, but if they don’t put in the work like me, they don’t deserve you like me. I am out here waiting for you, don’t settle for someone who doesn’t deserve you. Don’t settle. Our fairy tale will happen, but remember it doesn’t go from ‘once upon a time’ to ‘happy ever after.’ There is a battle that goes on in those middle chapters. Sometimes I am going to mess up. Sometimes you are going to mess up. I am going to say things I don’t mean and mean things I don’t say. Sometimes I will forget that you are a princess and sometimes I will get distracted. But, together, through love, patience, communication, and the grace of God, we are going to win. Let us grow together. It is not too late. You are beautifully and wonderfully made by the hands of a perfect Creator, live like it! Prince Charming.

David is skilled designer.

  • Princess

    All hail patriarchy disguised in pretty words .. oppression disguised as advice..

    Dear Future husband,

    Thank you for your letter, I am happy to know that I should be waiting for you my prince charming in this ivory tower that our male dominated society has built around me. It is thus I am writing to regrettably inform you Prince Charming that I have left this tower, while you are out there fighting challenges and slaying dragons I too am moving on and climbing mountains and defeating trolls. You see Prince Charming I never needed saving, I don’t need you.

    Thank you for reminding me that I deserve someone that will fight for me, Prince Charming I need to you to know I firstly want someone that will listen to me who won’t try and own me as a result of feeling entitled because they have fought for me. Prince Charming, I am more than capable of preserving my purity, and yes I can tell the difference between those that say they are you and those that are there merely to spit game. But Prince Charming maybe if you stopped looking in the mirror for a second you may see that I too am human and perhaps I to am interested in exploring my sexual side, my purity is mine to do with as I please.

    I am flattered by your many pretty words, and yes I am beautifully made by the hands of the creator, but I don’t believe I am an Eve created for the pleasure of her man. I don’t believe I should be out here waiting for you. So I won’t settle I won’t settle for you Prince Charming or any others because I already have all I need. Myself.

    living happily ever after.

    Your Princess.